Writing

02
Jan

New Year Gratitude For Pervs

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Shimmering through your screen is my gratitude for the tributes sent, clips purchased… If you’ve interacted with me and played with me in sessions and heard me guide them with my voice or on cam… lucky you.  On harder days, I forget that so many of my fans and subs are sincerely genuine and lovely.

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09
Sep

Your Vote Means Something!

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If you’ve taken classes from me, or even if you haven’t, perhaps you get the feeling that I advocate for sex workers by doing the hard work and taking action.  This action comes from wanting to educate and make working as a SW easier.  This action comes from donating money to sex worker-focused spaces; donating my online […]

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12
Oct

Featured Next To…

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Not gonna lie, I love being featured next to Cardi B and weird sex toys on @AVN Check out the feature article here. “As an online dominatrix, I am able to reach through my screen and touch the lives of so many people around the world,” she told AVN. “I’ve done so for a long […]

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01
May

Hoe For Hoes

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Over here in the classy hoes line, hot hoe teaches other hot hoes on how to best hoe. I hadn’t expected to give away over $2100 this month, but I did it. And it felt good. This started with trying to find a way to help struggling BDSM spaces. Sister businesses that hosted in-person providers, […]

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10
Apr

Corona, The Online Sex Work Economy And Giving Back

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It is quiet. The streets are quiet. The park. The neighborhood in which I live lined with lovely homes. Even my favourite grocery store, which on any given day, is filled with a sort of bustle and buzz that makes me happy. The Corona Virus, AKA COVID19, and subsequent stay at home orders have been […]

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17
Jan

How To Be An Online Content Producer AKA Online Dominatrix AKA Boss

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How did I come to teaching a workshop called, Monetizing Your Appeal Online: Content, Business Strategies for Models, Dommes? How does one become an online domme, or fetish content producer, or their own boss? Why do I want to share this valuable information? I am an actively working Asian Online Dominatrix.  So, I don’t just […]

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10
Jun

Dirty Feet for Dirty Minds and Other Stuff

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I benefited very much from the absolute knowledge that no one would read my stuff. I benefited from low expectations. I wrote honestly and quickly, because I didn’t have the luxury of doing anything else. Because I was certain no one would read it, I was really writing as honestly as I could for a perceived audience of 8 people, all of whom were fry cooks. — Anthony Bourdain pod cast with Andy Greenwald. :::Dirty feet for dirty minds::: I have decided to change my blog, which has been my dedication to visual stories. I used to write. I used to care about it and loved it. I used to be decent at it. And it was a lot like that, what Bourdain said. I wrote for a tiny perceived audience. It was honest, poetic, sexy as hell and what I created was transcendent. That is, it transcended me into a different plane of thinking and feeling. I am more honest, more poetic, and sexier now than I have ever been. So, I will be writing again. Lucky you.
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