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04
Jan

Mz Kim to Teach Las Vegas Class in Online Content, Strategies for Models, Dommes

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Las Vegas, NV — Mz. Kim, 2020 AVN nominee, will teach a two-part workshop for online business, building content and marketing strategies for clips performers, models and Dommes.

Kim was recognized as an upcoming 2020 AVN nominee for Favorite Domme as well as XBIZ Rising Clip Star nominee earlier this year. She is holding the class on January 21st, 2020, from 1 to 4 p.m. (PST) at the Studios, described as “a boutique fetishspace for private play, education and photography.”

The world of online sex work is complicated and fascinating. Being a true professional in this industry takes creativity, discipline, focus, entrepreneurship and a love of human sexuality. Mz. Kim has done this in spades and it shows in all of the paths she has taken to stake her own digital real estate in the fetish online market.

Mz. Kim has taught this workshop numerous times and is looking forward to teach more women the valuable skills necessary to make a living and a business online.

“I have been a professional online Domina of 15 years and I have put together this two-part series to harness your potential to maximize and monetize your online presence,” said, Mz. Kim.

For more information and to sign up for the classes, read the details and purchase tickets at the website here and follow Kim on Twitter.

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06
Dec

How Art & Smut Get Made

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This is how art & smut gets made. I consider some of what I do artistic in nature, and this is definitely one of those instances. This took 4 people and quite a few man hours. Not to mention the planning, the location, the wardrobe. All so I could satisfy mine (and many others’) fetish cravings…

When I collaborate, I choose carefully. My time is valuable, and I respect the time of other artists, too. That’s why I appreciate it when like-minds come together. The two other women you see here are Andrea Rosu and Stella Sol. They are not just pros in this industry, but creatives as well. They constantly inspire me, and I ask their opinions often.

The pet you see in this photo, he’s special, too. He belongs to Stella. And it was a pleasure to play and pose with someone so keen to please. My heart fluttered a little when we both put on our masks, I wore the black bunny one, he the dog mask, and we had a tender moment. I bent down to adjust his mask, and caressed his face. I don’t know how it felt for him in that moment, but I remember it to be quite special.

I think a lot about what collaboration does for me. In money terms, the video content that I publish involving others (that is, myself and 1 or even 2 other women are in the same scene) do not do that well. My best selling content is always solo work. However, I continue to push for special collaborations because every time I work with other women, whether they are versed in the same niche categories as I am, I learn something new and valuable. I am inspired to make something different. And it’s always valuable.

The workshops that I am teaching incorporates this idea of collaboration. I would venture to say that all SW is pretty isolating. If it’s the kind of work that involves seeing clients, then there is another person involved. There can be some intense feelings of loneliness and isolation sometimes. Many SWs also don’t ask other people in the industry sincere, thoughtful questions. 

I learn the most when I ask people about their experiences and how they have come to the successes they have made. People also don’t like to talk about money, or they don’t speak truthfully about it. I find that to be a real detriment to people in this work. I am all about financial literacy and transparency and cutting through the mud to get to the nugget of things.

So, art and smut get made like this. We learn from each other, we develop our skills and transform ourselves into fetish bunnies walking our pets at the local park…

You’re welcome!

To see this video “How Art Gets Made”, please click here to join my Onlyfans. It’s how I primarily communicate with those who value my work. It’s an inexpensive subscription fee and it’s a great way to see lots of my content!

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02
Dec

The Best American Dream Interview

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Ynotcam interviewed me. I really like the it turned out.

Here is an excerpt.

What should a domme who is not yet online in any big way professionally know to help set them up for success?

This is a big question and requires quite a bit of time to discuss — so much so, that I put together a class to cover this subject called “Monetizing Your Appeal Online.”

One of the first things I ask people to do is identify their strengths and their skills. Then I ask them to think about what they like to do. Where those two areas meet is the focus point of their path.

Because everyone is different, I never give specific professional advice until I get to know their individual situation. What I would say is that grouping cam and clips together is a mistake. They are both online work, but making clips and being on cam require different skill sets. Presenting an idea and recording it is different than being live on cam with a client. The stage-fright or simply trying to come up with things to talk about in a live cam session is a different issue than not knowing how to act in front of a camera. As a general rule, I would also say, practice takes the edge off of everything — practicing on webcam, practicing acting, practice improvising.

Mz. Kim has classes upcoming in Portland, OR (December 7) and in San Fransisco, CA (December 14). Click the links for more information.

To read the full interview, click here.

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01
Dec

AVN Nomination: Favorite Domme

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I was nominated for Favorite Domme for AVN 2020. I have been on their website for some time, and wondered whether or not the self-propelled pre-nomination process would truly do anything. But, here I am, a nominee, and I am nominated and placed right next to the OG Nina Hartley. I think that I’m more excited for that than anything else.

So, I’ll be attending the AVN awards and AEE Adult Entertainment Expo as a nominee this year. Voting closes on Jan 25th and I fully expect to lose. The point, though, is that I will be there to work, to teach, to play, and hopefully meet some excellent people. And walking the red carpet will only add to the fun.

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19
Nov

Mz Kim to Teach San Francisco Class in Online Content, Strategies for Models, Dommes

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I am teaching a 2-course workshop in San Francisco!

Saturday, December 14
Monetizing Your Appeal Online
Course A: 12-1:45 PM
CourseB: 3:00 PM – 4:45 PM.
$40 each class / $70 for both

Whether you are a novice interested in adult work or a seasoned pro, your online presence is an essential part of your business. PLEASE NOTE THIS IS A TWO PART CLASS! Feel free to sign up for one or both, although to get the full benefit of Mz Kim’s knowledge, we recommend both.

In this two part series, Mz. Kim, a professional Domina of 15 years, has put together key points to harness your potential to maximize and monetize your online presence. CLICK ON THE BUY TICKETS LINK TO READ THE DETAILED DESCRIPTION.

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12
Nov

Question from Dan Savage

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Dan Savage sent out a Tweet and asked me and several other pro-dommes to weigh in about a question sent in to him by a listener. I decided to write a post about it.

Why are dominatrices so fucking expensive? I live in a big city with lots of doms, and they’re all $250/hour or more.  On top of that, many of them ask for “tributes” on their websites and strongly imply that the hourly rate is just the beginning of their charges.  Now, I’m sure there are expenses involved in the business and I don’t know much about being a dominatrix, but it seems to me that your average dom would get a lot more business if she lowered her rates a little so many people would not get priced out of the market.  After all, basic economics tells us that non-essential services are price-sensitive.

Anonymous

The question of why dominatrices cost so much is legitimate… though, the condescension in tone makes this question hard to take seriously. 

Asking why they are so expensive is like walking into a Louis Vuitton store and saying, “why is everything in here so expensive.”  The simple answer is, because the market dictates it.  LV is a luxury brand.  We, the professional dommes are a highly specialized, luxury service.  There is a market that dictates both.   In a highly specialized service, specific needs and intimate desires of a submissive requires a high level of thought and attention. Lowering prices would reduce quality and thought and attention. And in this intimate world of kinks and fetishes and transcendence and bliss, would you want a reduction in the quality of thought and attention put forth by your provider?

“…(B)asic economics tells us that non-essential services are price-sensitive”.

Only people who don’t know anything about economics use this phrase.  We, the dominatrices, are the actual market.  So, when you look around to see the market showing you a particular number, maybe it isn’t the worker who is overcharging.  Others in the thread have already outlined the steep costs of equipment, rentals, training, education, clothing, tools, toys, societal and criminal risks.  I won’t go into those.   What I am focusing on more is the real question. 

“…(I)t seems to me that your average dom would get a lot more business if she lowered her rates a little so many people would not get priced out of the market.” 

The thing that I dislike the most is not even the self-centered, self-benefiting nature of the idea that rates should be lowered.   Most of us are looking for a good deal.  We all like to pay less.  If I could get a pair of Louboutins or a car for less than market price, I would do that. 

What is really grating is the unspecified amount of “a little”.  What’s a little?  Should dommes  lower their rates to whatever you, the domme bargain-hunter decides is within your comfort zone?  What is that number?  And how did you come to it?  Who are you speaking for when you talk about the “many people” who are being priced out of the market? 

This isn’t about other people or even economics. This is about you pushing your own limitations and selfishness under the guise of economics and a market.  As you said, you have no understanding of what it takes to run a business as a pro-domme.  It’s not my job or my desire to teach you about this. You simply want the rates to be lower because you are uncomfortable with your own lack of resources, lack of skills in budgeting & saving.  So, when you see that the market is at a certain price, maybe it’s not the market with the problem.

Asking why something is so expensive isn’t going to get you closer to your goal.

I am primarily an online domme. The cost of entry (to a session with me) is generally lower because you can begin talking with me, and schedule shorter phone or cam sessions and spend less than the 1 hour or 2 hour minimums required by in-person dommes. So, I get fewer questions of this blamey-why-are-you-so-expensive nature because the initial amounts seem lower. However, if you add up my fees, the per minute charges, per text charges, the many other ways of interaction added up, 250 becomes a rather small number.

The upfront cost of $250/hour the listener mentions seems really steep at first. And as many have already commented in the original Twitter post, this includes so many things built into the experience.

My point is, this person is asking the wrong question. What is the real question here? Asking why something is so expensive isn’t going to get you closer to your goal.

The question should be: How do I get this experience? Simply wishing the rates to be lower because you are uncomfortable with your own limitations will not help you get what you want. Whining and complaining and giving silly economic theory will not get you what you want. Finding the domina whom you really admire and working up to her expectations, within her boundaries, and limitations… this is how you get the experience and connection you truly crave. The economics fall into place when you prioritize your own experience and the value that a domina can bring into your life.

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25
Oct

Monetizing Your Appeal Online

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online domination class workshop

I am teaching a 2-course workshop in Portland! Saturday, December 7 @SubRosaPDX
Monetizing Your Appeal Online
Course A: 12-2 p.m.
CourseB: 3-5 p.m. Purchase your tickets here:

Whether you are a novice interested in adult work or a seasoned pro, your online presence is an essential part of your business.PLEASE NOTE THIS IS A TWO PART CLASS! Feel free to sign up for one or both, although to get the full benefit of Mz Kim’s knowledge, we recommend both.

In this two part series, Mz. Kim, a professional Domina of 15 years, has put together key points to harness your potential to maximize and monetize your online presence. CLICK ON THE BUY TICKETS LINK TO READ THE DETAILED DESCRIPTION.

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24
Oct

AVN Nomination

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Nominate me for 2 AVN awards. Click here and simply hit submit (really easy if you have a Twitter account already).

https://stars.avn.com/nominator/mzkimap/avn_awards/849,434

I’ll be having a ton of fun in Las Vegas, and if you’d like to check out the possibilities for fetish related info.

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22
Oct

Twitter

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Are you following Me on Twitter? You really should.

@MzKimAP

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18
Oct

Some Exquisite Videos

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I’m proud to present to you a couple of new videos.

The first:
Down The Rabbit Hole – Aroma Adventures (MP4)
A collaboration with Goddess Stella Sol & Andrea Rosu. A delicious mind fuck, perfect for Halloween and the popper addict.

Second:
Vampire Mistress Kim
A sensual, deadly, bloodlusting Vampire video.
I have posted both on my preferred content site:

I have posted both on my preferred content site: This is where I am uploading my favourite videos.
https://www.getindiebill.com/store/list/MzKim

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