San Francisco Dominatrix
I am a Professional Dominatrix located in San Francisco, California. I'm Asian and I speak Mandarin Chinese and English. I train & play with subs from all over the world. Come face-to-face with the exquisite experience of elegant female dominance; with my creative, devious mind.
Perhaps you’ve come here due to a curiosity, an ache and yearning. You’ve been looking, you’ve been searching and you’re ready to engage with someone who can satiate this curiosity inside you. It’s this kind of openness and wish for connection that I enjoy.
I am selective about who I allow into my world. I am intentional about how I spend my energy. My decision is based on my interest in you as a person, your reasons for serving me, and the intersection of our desires. I'll only consider those who apply and those who screen.
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It's just such a juicy, joyous feeling when I can get my subs to face their truth. You love cock. You want your mouth to be shoved onto cock. You want to do even more than that... So, it's time to face it.
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San Francisco Folsom Street Fair
Hello San Francisco
Hello Folsom Street Fair
Hello Degenerates
There are few cities I love playing in more than San Francisco. There are zero street fairs as kinky as this. So this is your chance to experience a unique kind of humored degeneracy, exquisite sensuality, and a confidence in my understanding and endless curiosity of human sexuality and fetishes. I have 1 more opening solo and 1 more opening with my glorious play partner (below) Sept 24-27. And when I say it's limited availability... I mean it. I am almost fully booked. So, do hurry. Apply at MzKim.com.
Can you imagine being part of a public scene in which your audience is filled with kinksters, dommes, gawkers, leather boys? Can you imagine being whisked away into a private luxury dungeon in the heart of San Francisco? Can you imagine having me guide you into a moment in your life that is so sublime and intense that it will be etched into your memory forever?
For those of you who can only observe from afar, read about my Kink content folder, my sexy times about to happen with Rei, Andrea, and contributions HERE: http://followmzkim.com.
You must apply through my application on my website here.
Columbus Ohio
My accomplished friend Goddess Alexandra Snow has started a new space in Columbus, Ohio. I will be attending the grand opening of Wicked Eden and celebrating the beginning of this massive undertaking and non-profit called the Autonomy Project, a first of its kind in the country.
I am scheduling sessions June 1-4 in Columbus. This is very unusual. All of my session spots are usually reserved for people I have known for years and there is usually a 6 month to 2 year waiting list. What can I say? I am in demand and I'm really good at what I do.
But this event is special. If you are an attendee of A Wicked Event, can you imagine being part of a public scene in which your audience is filled with world-class dommes? Can you imagine having me guide you into a moment in your life that is so sublime and intense that it will be etched into your memory forever?
Tickets will sell out, so go buy it before you run out of time and are desperate and left outside while all the fun is had inside.
I have 3 spots left for June 2, 3, 4. I have no plans to return to the midwest any time soon, so this will be your chance to book something with me.
Unable serve me for a full session? I will be available for cash meets in Columbus. Maybe you'll get kicked in the balls at the park. Maybe I'll let you kiss my feet on the street.
You must apply through my application on my website here.
SextPanther (For Models)
Models! This is a quick tips and tricks post for SextPanther. If you have not yet signed up for SextPanther, take this as your sign from the universe to do it today. It takes a day or two to be approved, and the application is one of the easiest I've used. If you sign up, please use my referral link here.
I have an e-book that I give away without charge if you sign up using my referral code, or take my online SP class. If you are new to sex work, you won’t be approved for SextPanther right away. They require an established social media presence OR established following on other adult platforms. The good news is, even if you aren’t approved at first, you can apply again and multiple times. Sometimes it only takes a short while to build a bit of a Twitter following and if you use my referral code, often times your approval process goes more smoothly. Because their main requirement is that you have some sort of established following, if you get that following first on any of the sites they mention, then you will be approved.
SextPanther gives you the option to charge for your phone number, or to make it free. This is not your real phone number! You can find your SP phone number on your profile once you have your profile established. It’s a number that SextPanther relays calls and texts through.
I recommend making your number free. Customers must pay to message you, but you want them to add your number to their list for free.
Sextpanther is a powerful web-based platform that works both on your phone through SMS texting, on your browser, and through the SP app. Messages populate all three if you let them. The browser version is the one that is easiest and most efficient to use, mainly because you have the option of easily uploading from your computer with the function of a mouse and keyboard. SextPanther has recently improved its app and its site in many ways – from loading times, to message speeds, to new features that help make money easier. The bulk of your interactions will be sexting and sending media messages. Phone and Video are also possible.
Fill out your profile fully. Add as many photos in the gallery as are allowed. Pro Tip: Switch up those photos, including your main photo – every 2 or 3 days / times you are on SP. Check your profile and links by viewing your profile without being signed in as a provider. Make sure everything looks good. Is there a photo you meant to be a paid photo, but is actually viewable as a free photo? Does a link not work?
When you make content, always think about what your strengths are, what your assets are, and what your limits are. This is a huge subject and is covered in my other workshops. I offer quite a few resources for sex workers on my website where there’s a section specifically designed for SW resources and classes (MzKim.com/resource).
Both my SextPanther - How To Make Money Online, a 30 page E-book, and full video class can be purchased here: https://mzkim.gumroad.com/l/FtbRf
New Classes
New live classes and recorded classes have been added due to high demand. To read my most recent Medium article, CORONA, THE ONLINE SEX WORK ECONOMY AND GIVING BACK, click here.
Solve Your Problems by...
Learn more about how and why this exclusive Asian Dominatrix is able to charge high prices
I get this question once in a while. "Why are your videos (sessions, calls, etc) so expensive?" Response: Solve your problems by becoming rich, instead of complaining to someone who can command these prices.
Look, I never balk at small purchases or small tributes. I respect those who work within their budgets and send what they can. In fact, the harder you work, the more devoted you are, the more likely I am to accept you. It doesn't take being rich to gain favor with me. However, I do not feel the need to ensure that everything I make or offer is affordable for everyone. As an exclusive Asian Dominatrix who has run an extremely successful business for over 10 years, I know what price models work for me.
Certain kinds of content are meant to be geared towards a bigger audience. Other kinds of content like this are meant to be exclusive. Couture, if you will. This means that they are tailored to people who want those specific things and are willing to pay for them. Sometimes it's shocking and very hard for people to understand why or how I can charge these prices. As this guy said, "O.k. Mz. Kim so you have a lot of people buying your videos at $999 for a little 15-20 minute video." My answer: Indeed. I have subs who pay $20 to chat with me. I have subs who pay thousands to speak to me, to see me on cam, to serve me.
And they are willing to pay. Thousands per video sometimes. Thousands per session sometimes. It's ok if you aren't that person. It's ok if you don't believe that those people exist. They have more money than you and that's not your problem. But if you want to play with the big girls, then you have to act like a big boy and make more money.
And, if you make it your problem by complaining, then you look like a whiner and no one will want to play with you.
The Best American Dream Interview
Ynotcam interviewed me. I really like the it turned out.
What should a domme who is not yet online in any big way professionally know to help set them up for success?
This is a big question and requires quite a bit of time to discuss — so much so, that I put together a class to cover this subject called “Monetizing Your Appeal Online.”
One of the first things I ask people to do is identify their strengths and their skills. Then I ask them to think about what they like to do. Where those two areas meet is the focus point of their path.
Because everyone is different, I never give specific professional advice until I get to know their individual situation. What I would say is that grouping cam and clips together is a mistake. They are both online work, but making clips and being on cam require different skill sets. Presenting an idea and recording it is different than being live on cam with a client. The stage-fright or simply trying to come up with things to talk about in a live cam session is a different issue than not knowing how to act in front of a camera. As a general rule, I would also say, practice takes the edge off of everything — practicing on webcam, practicing acting, practice improvising.
Mz. Kim has classes upcoming in Portland, OR (December 7) and in San Fransisco, CA (December 14). Click the links for more information.
To read the full interview, click here.
Some Exquisite Videos
I'm proud to present to you a couple of new videos.
The first:
Down The Rabbit Hole - Aroma Adventures (MP4)
A collaboration with Goddess Stella Sol & Andrea Rosu. A delicious mind fuck, perfect for Halloween and the popper addict.
Second:
Vampire Mistress Kim
A sensual, deadly, bloodlusting Vampire video.
I have posted both on my preferred content site:
I have posted both on my preferred content site: This is where I am uploading my favourite videos.
https://www.getindiebill.com/store/list/MzKim